Record what needs to be said.
Stay in charge of the end of life.
Keep your voice alive
even when you are gone.
Write to bring the change.
Or keep it short & simple:
e.g. “Plain funeral, please.
I like tomato soup.”
Express what important.
Prevent guessing & quarrelling.
Help with the planning.
Show care & love.
Schedule into the future.
for what yours anyway.
It’s never too early.
I’m dying and this process totally confuses me. On one hand, I am still alive, breathing and present, and on the other hand, I feel like “I died” already. Mostly I feel paralysed. Overwhelmed with fear, anger, sometimes even rage. Not able to think, plan and look ahead. On better days, I feel grateful. Sometimes even hopeful, understanding and accepting. I imagine “I died” happened already but not because I want to die. I imagine “I died” so the question “Will I die?” loses its power over me leaving me free and unrestrained in my actions. Most days I wake up thinking about how best to use the remaining time, energy and serve, forgive and tidy up anything which needs closing. I wish to complete my life without the heaviness of “I died” and instead leave lightly, with the others inspired, enlivened and fulfilled by how I presented myself. Better, I envisage I left knowing I brought joy and connection beyond the limits of time. I am leaving proving it’s possible to support those I love without “I’m dying”, “I died” and naive “will I die?” stopping me to continue to bring love, kindness and joy.
The digital posting system had been designed to be user friendly.
Firstly, you are asked to list who your message is for.
Secondly, when this is done you can start expressing your wishes & write your messages.
Thirdly, and most importantly, you can edit and attach all types of files; even schedule into the future.
Most importantly, your message is accessible by your named contacts only unless you decide to make it public.
Please visit our NoEnds Shop to suprise others and schedule delivery of unique, hand-made gifts. Additionally, visit our shop for ceremonial and meditation robes and other comfortable and beautiful clothing and art iteams. Our shop includes links to emotional support groups and meetings. This is especially important if you feel like or say “I died” or ask questions such as “will I die?”.
Please note our shop exists to support our main purpose. Therefore, NoEnds shop is simply something that adds to our activities and is not our main focus. NoEnds was created to uphold our last wishes and messages for the generation to come. Above all, we provide the opportunity to use the time of our passing in service to others to leave them inspired, enlivened and fulfilled.
This is NoEnds.org We exist to uphold last wishes & messages. In other words, we support anyone saying “I am dying” or those who feel like “I died” already. We belong to all people.
NoEnds.org Digital Postal Service is in Beta.
If you don’t mind imperfections and happy to help us
with testing and developments, we would love you to join us.
Direct Messages are 9 times more likely to convince people to explore.